Mzansi Lifestyle: Reconnecting Lovers

 

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Love is no easy street. It's a very challenging and exciting experience. It can go right or wrong, there's predictability and unpredictability. You never know where you stand and sometimes even though you do know, not everything is what it seems. There's overcompensation, guilt influenced affection that can make the relationship feel like doctors in the operating room PRESSURE AND CAUTION.

Many fall in love with the hopes of never breaking up. Some bring out the best in each other that they never think they'll break up but there comes that unexpected day when it ends like it never began. Going seperate ways and getting used to being without each other. The moving on process is hard, letting go isn't easy and when you finally do let go, you feel so much better and you're happier but then some reconnect after the break up and become friends, they reminisce about their former love and end up wanting to give it another try.

Now before you go back into something that hurt you...

Make sure you're going into it a better version of you.
You can't go in there without a new mindset and lessons.
Because if you blindy walk back in, the same mistakes will be repeated and it'll be back to square one.

Know what you both want and put it on the table for clarity. Don't get too excited just because you still have feelings for each other and it feels like you're meant to be. Think it through and don't go in the same person they broke up with. They ended things because you were unfaithful. Not willing to listen, the relationship was one sided when it came to making decisions. Those are the things that made you run, why would you go back just to experience that again? *better the devil you know than the one you don't* don't use that to make yourself feel better. Don't settle for hurt just because you know who you're dealing with.
Love is a two way street. You must both want the same thing or you'll be wasting each other's time.

If you want to get back with your ex then talk it out first to be on the clear or you'll end up used or proving you can't change. Don't rush the reconnecting process take it slow and you'll see if you two are taking the necessary steps to make it work or there's stalling or if one isn't that invested, actions are communication that should never be ignored. We hope this helps.

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