Avenue Lifestyle: 5 Signs He's Cheating/No Longer Interested.

Avenue Lifestyle: 5 Signs He's/She's Cheating/ No Longer Interested.

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Relationships aren't a walk in the park. They can be very beautiful or just gut wrenching. Many reasons come to play. People falling for each other for the wrong motive, different views and dreams. The clash of lovers is an everyday struggle that can make people fall apart or fall deeper in love with each other. 

Well how do you know if He/She is cheating or you're just being paranoid....the signs are always there at times we turn a blind eye, try so hard to love them more hoping they'd see how committed and loving we are forgetting it's not you. It's their desires at a high and you're just the casualty.

 1. They Start Overcompensating - Nothing like a guilty guy or girl who just goes all out to appreciate you and it's as if they're trying to cover their tracks while convince themselves they still love you. It's a false assurance that only covers them so you don't get to really see what's going on. 

 2. The Disappearing Acts & Unavailability - Someone who works so hard to make things work won't just ghost you for the weekend or something and act like it's not a big deal. They maintain effort no matter what unless the honeymoon phase fades and they get comfortable then no longer add value to the relationship as was at first. You'd find that to you they're not around but a friend or someone just spoke to them or they were last seen at the club. It can make you feel avoided and unwanted that's where insecurities creep in and self esteem gets a total knockout. Yikes! 

 3. Inconsistent Excuses/ Reversal - No matter how good they are at lying. Some things won't add up. They find ways to make it look like you're the one who has everything mixed up. Twisting the conversation and pinning it all on you. Making you feel like they can't be trusted and the classic "if you don't trust me, why are you still with me?" It's a toxic game that has you feeling guilty and they get to get away with it or it just leads to tension and more fights as without the proof you have nothing to stand on but suspicion.

 4. They are Happy/ Absent in The Relationship but Physically There - remember when you two got together and they were blissful? But now everytime their phone rings or receive a text or come back from work or wherever they seem to be giving the impression that there's someone else making them smile and it's not you. Their level of investment on you has dropped and you try so hard to make them notice you but they treat you like that meal they no longer vibe with on some "I'm used to this, maybe some other time" like you used to be all over me and now, now you're just tossing me aside. Their body language is just not responsive to you. 

 5. They Don't Mind Losing You - They see someone pushing up on you and they don't mind at all but at first they were jealous and overprotective. The fun routine is dead, the conversations, the effort towards growing together just leads to a tearing, a separation that's obvious but is more of a slow burner. You try to fight until you see it's no use. You see them posting someone else or asking other people out and you know it's the end..

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Overall cheating or loss of connection happens. Some cheat because they're not happy in the relationship and instead of speaking up they give you hints to push you away. Some don't want to lose you but don't mind cheating. When someone isn't interested anymore it's as clear as daylight with the bright sun shining...so it's better to always observe the road the relationship is on. You could be in the desert thinking you're in a refreshing pool. 

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