Avenue Talk: Going For The Dream

Sometimes in Life we find ourselves at cross roads, where should I go? No one really has certainty of the path they take and even though you may be equipped you may not know how and when to use the equipment/knowledge because fear comes in and makes you look weak. Confusion, doubt all start challenging your decisions and you start thinking you're not good enough, that maybe you're being unrealistic you'll never achieve your goals.

You then think of a U-turn, going back and settling for something comfortable just for your sanity and security. While it's not what you wanted you do it with love but the passion isn't there, it's just not for you. What you wanted starts haunting you and you have no choice but to go back. What's meant for you never leaves you, it can remind you of its existence and you must seek for it, go after it. The path is scary, unpredictable but be unpredictable too, fear comes in,stand your ground. You know this is for you, why fear the obstacle? Some challenges reveal some of your strengths you are yet to discover. Some challenges show off your strengths and your determination to make it but if you're on the side of fear, doubt, worry the obstacle makes you look incapable, not ready and as a failure. You're a winner, a fighter, a warrior and never see yourself on the losing side. Have a winner's mindset.

Speak about yourself in a positive light. Say Good things about you.

I can do this...

I can make it...

I'm going to make it.

I'm capable.

I'm strong.

I'm resilient.

I'm persistent.

I'm determined.

I'm focused.

I'm consistent.

I'm hardworking.

I'm passionate.

Invest in yourself and put in the work. Do research. Watch uplifting content. Be good to yourself and be patient with each step. Whether you're job hunting, starting a business, want to be an actor, model, whatever it is you want to do don't go into it with negative energy and expect good results. You'll always think you're not good enough and weigh your abilities less an not give it your best.

Get rid of...

What if I fail?

I don't think I can do this!!

This won't work!!

What if no one likes it?

I'm not tall enough.

I'm too short.

I don't have the right look.

I'm not good enough.

I'm not deserving because of my past.

I'm incapable.

I'm too busy.

I'm not ready for this.

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