Avenue Lifestyle: 5 Signs He Likes You & Why You Should Run

Avenue Lifestyle: 5 Signs He Likes You & You're Not Ready 

Written By: McKing N Ngobeni

5 Signs He Likes You & Why You Should Run. Yes!! Most of us are into self sabotage because we're still not over a lot of things, we bag a lot of hurt and we share it unaware. Relationships, Friendships get ruined by something from long ago that we can't seem to heal from. It left a dent or maybe a scratch but you feel wrecked, severely wrecked.

1. He's Handsome 

 

- Yes I said it. A lot of people believe that good looking people are too....well good looking to be single and they have a higher chance of attracting a lot of people making it hard for them to say no to variety. While he likes you, you start a negative thought pattern that maybe you're not that pretty, you're not enough for him. If you're in this space. First work on yourself then get in the game or insecurities, paranoia and other negative emotions will have you thinking the worst. Because we can list many reasons why he likes you but change and clarity start from within.

 2. He's Popular 

 

I'm your biggest fan I'll follow you until you love me, papa-paparazzi - Lady Gaga

- "Everybody knows him and they always want his attention. I feel like a fan girl or boy" well yeah. It sucks to feel like you're dating a celebrity. You feel like he has so many options and yet he's out with you? Why? Is he passing time? And everyone probably has some story about him that can make you run for the hills. Well girlfriend I think you shouldn't become a detective because going around digging leads to more information that doesn't make sense unless your sources know what they're talking about then it's just trolling. Ask him but be ready for anything. So his popularity if you can't handle it. Get yourself an Alfred Pennyworth. Bruce Wayne/Batman are too popular. Never settle if you won't manage.

 3. You have Trust Issues 

 

- You like him, he likes you and everyone is definitely shipping you but if you're carrying hurt from your past relationships then yikes you need to work on yourself before you step into something new because everything will be a red flag and you'll freak out over nothing. So give yourself that Love Sweet Love. 

 4. Unrealistic Expectations

  

Unicorns aren't real. I said what I said.

- You have your own version of the perfect partner and how he should be. Those expectations if the roles were reversed you wouldn't back them up yourself. This sets you up for failure, sometimes learn to love someone for they are and not who you want them to be, that way you experience a love you never thought you would unlike wanting something that just seems too good to be true and unachievable. If your dream partner doesn't have a flaw and is all too put together well sweet dreams honey. 

 5. My Friends have an opinion 

- Your friend.s think he's hot but definitely not for you. It's good to have some girlies give you advice, unfortunately you're the one doing the tasting and the presentation can always be deceiving. Don't judge a book by its reviews, read it yourself. He likes you but everyone thinks he's too good looking for you. Point number one talked about internal struggles now this one is an external one. If your heart is dictated by your friends you'll date someone they approve and you don't. You'll be unhappy but they will be happy. 

Finding someone needs you ready, you don't dive into something hoping their love will heal you, it starts with you. So you need to channel all the emotions and everything you've been through and let it go. If you feel inferior next to your partner, if you feel undeserving first pamper yourself and then you'll be able to love others because if you're not happy with yourself even if someone appreciated you, you'd hurt them. So seek caution. If they're trying to move forward with you and you keep moving backwards, the past isn't a safety net of reference, it's a tool of self sabotage most of the time. Be a risk taker. 

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